Whether you yourself are currently experiencing widowhood, or you know someone who is - I want to take a moment to acknowledge your strength. When you lose a lifelong partner, there are moments where it might feel numb, as though moving forward and creating a next-steps plan is outside of your capacity. That’s completely understandable.
Sometimes taking baby steps to protect yourself financially is the best approach. Biting off too much at once could become overwhelming, while not acting at all could be equally detrimental in the long-run. You can stay focused on three simple financial action-items to get started.
It might be tempting to completely change your routine, goals, or living space right now. It’s important to take a step back and give yourself a bit of time before making any major life changes. Often, when we’re in the midst of grieving, change sounds like the perfect way to escape, improve, or push forward past the emotional pain.
However, as is the case with most aspects of your financial plan, impulse decisions don’t usually work in your favor. Taking a moment to think about any changes you’re thinking of making - like moving to a new part of the country, making a major purchase or paying off your mortgage - and discussing them with a trusted financial planner is your best course of action.
Retitling bank and investment accounts, reaching out to creditors, moving utility accounts to your name, and canceling any payments (like a gym membership) in your spouse’s name are a handful of financial obligations you’re likely facing right now. You’ll likely also need to reach out to the credit bureaus to put a death notice on your spouse’s credit.
In most cases, financial institutions and other organizations will be more than willing to work with you to make this process easy. That being said, if this process is sapping your limited energy, enlist help. Having your kids, a close friend, or your advisor help to make the necessary phone calls can be a significant relief.
You’ll need a plan to protect your finances both right now and in the future. Part of your new plan may be a payout from your spouse’s life insurance, or Social Security survivor benefits. If you haven’t spoken with a financial advisor yet, now may be the right time to find someone you trust to help you build your financial future during this new phase of your life. Having an advisor on your side to support you through this major life change can relieve a lot of the financial pressure you may be feeling to handle everything alone. It can also help you to avoid any missteps that could affect your financial security.
At Wood Smith Advisors, we help women in all stages of their lives create unique financial plans that address their individual goals. We pride ourselves in being supportive, and walking with our clients through their journey at a pace that’s comfortable for them - especially during a transition into widowhood. If you need help with your finances right now, or just need someone to talk to, we encourage you to reach out. We’d love to support you in any way we can.
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“Buy low and sell high. It’s pretty simple. The problem is knowing what’s low and what’s high.” - Jim Rogers, Chairman of Rogers Holdings and Beeland Interests, Inc.
Buy low, sell high, four words that make the idea of investing in the stock market seem exciting and simple. The reality, however, can be overwhelming and frustrating, particularly if your investments aren’t performing as well as you expected in the markets. Maybe you heard the latest buzz about a new and upcoming technology that had you jumping at the chance to be a part of the action – only to realize later that you purchased high and now their stock price is dropping. You’re not alone.
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According to an EverFi, Inc recentsurvey, “More than a quarter of students believe they will be unprepared to manage their finances upon high school graduation. In addition, students surveyed demonstrated that they do not understand basic financial facts and concepts.” Teaching kids basic financial tasks like developing and sticking to a budget will result in strong habits that they can carry into the future. So, now the question is, what financial skills do you teach them? Well, it really depends on how old they are.
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Congratulations! You’re an executive and you now qualify for deferred compensation plans. But what does that mean?
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